The best on-line discussion on fatherhood I have seen – Daily Mail on-line

71hxecl41The Daily Mail, along with various other national papers, reported last week on a new genre of confessional literature – by new fathers experiencing negative feelings after their baby was born: The fatherhood taboo.

One of the authors of the three books, is quoted as saying, “New mums are better at parenting than new dads, but there’s a reason why: they are programmed to mother.”

This resulted in an outpouring of comments in the following days, most characterised by generosity and common sense – 176 comments in total.  It is the best discussion on fatherhood on-line that I have ever seen.  Participation was 50/50 men and women.  About one quarter of respondents agreed with the statement and the rest disagreed – vehemently.

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Why should overstretched maternity services extend to support fathers with depression?

Tradition: the sacred mother-baby bond.  Joseph is there in the dark, top right if you look very carefully!

Tradition: the sacred mother-baby bond. Joseph is there in the dark, top right if you look very carefully!

Last week was Mind’s Mental Health Week and it focussed on men.  And this week I am speaking at the Primary Care 2009 conference on postnatal depression and fathers.  (I am told my audience will be about 1000 people!)  Here is my full presentation, which is summarised below (references at end of blog).

Eight studies on PND and fathers have been published since 2008 and in June the Daily Telegraph and the BBC highlighted the issue: Father’s baby blues blight children.

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Barack Obama launches new fatherhood programme

In June last year, Barack Obama gave the best speech on fatherhood that any politician in the world has ever given.  He spoke of his own fatherhood: “now my life revolves around my two little girls” and describes how his concern for them pushes him to think about poverty, racial equality, gender equality, . . . → Read More: Barack Obama launches new fatherhood programme

The fatherhood agenda going forward

Eight things I think should change….

….to create a stronger expectation of and support for fatherhood.

Government is making good progress in some areas of policies and services – early years, work with the most vulnerable families in the community, and promotion of involvement by schools of fathers in their children’s learning.

But . . . → Read More: The fatherhood agenda going forward