Interesting on-line conversation about parental separation and child poverty

My last blog is the first blog of mine that has stimulated discussion on-line, with particularly insightful comment by Karen Woodall who leads the Centre for Separated Families.  I am so excited about this that all I want to do in my blog this week is recommend that people read the comments on . . . → Read More: Interesting on-line conversation about parental separation and child poverty

Fathers are a resource in the fight to end child poverty (again)

Child Poverty downing St 7/11/07In an earlier blog, Fathers are a resource in the fight to end child poverty, I wrote an open letter to the Minister for Children.  I made three points:

  • how fathers work is important to children in poverty; employment offices should engage with men with caring responsibilities as they do with women; at present only women are assumed to have caring responsibilities
  • the so-called “non-resident” or “absent” parent (who is often neither) needs support both in delivering a caring role and a financial role; at present he is not designated at all as a parent, except when it comes to enforcing his financial contribution
  • I proposed a new way of considering child poverty, looking at the earning and caring role of both parents (whether living together or not)

This week I got a reply from the Minister for Children – here is a copy.

It describes the work to promote engagement with fathers by Local Authority services and Continue reading Fathers are a resource in the fight to end child poverty (again)

It is time for the interests of children to balance the interests of business

A father's place is in the home - at least some of the time?

A father's place is in the home - at least some of the time?

So, it’s official.  The extension of paternity leave has been ditched.  The official reason is the recession, but the decision to delay an increase in paternity leave until after the next general election had been taken well before any recession was in sight.

There are two key points about the current situation that no commentators have pointed out.

First, dumping the change to paternity leave is not going to make much difference to families and children because the system was not going to work anyway.  Continue reading It is time for the interests of children to balance the interests of business

Fathers are a resource in the fight to end child poverty: open letter to the Minister for Children

povertyI have today written to the Minister of Children about child poverty and fathers.  Here is the letter.

Continue reading Fathers are a resource in the fight to end child poverty: open letter to the Minister for Children

Why should overstretched maternity services extend to support fathers with depression?

Tradition: the sacred mother-baby bond.  Joseph is there in the dark, top right if you look very carefully!

Tradition: the sacred mother-baby bond. Joseph is there in the dark, top right if you look very carefully!

Last week was Mind’s Mental Health Week and it focussed on men.  And this week I am speaking at the Primary Care 2009 conference on postnatal depression and fathers.  (I am told my audience will be about 1000 people!)  Here is my full presentation, which is summarised below (references at end of blog).

Eight studies on PND and fathers have been published since 2008 and in June the Daily Telegraph and the BBC highlighted the issue: Father’s baby blues blight children.

Continue reading Why should overstretched maternity services extend to support fathers with depression?

The Government’s breastfeeding strategy needs to engage with fathers to increase the lowest breastfeeding rates in Europe

This is the only image of breastfeeding with a father present that I could find on Google.

The evidence is strong: engaging with fathers in the promotion of breastfeeding increases breastfeeding rates significantly – and in some trials, spectacularly.  The UK won’t get off the bottom of the European league table of . . . → Read More: The Government’s breastfeeding strategy needs to engage with fathers to increase the lowest breastfeeding rates in Europe

US fathers call for paternity leave campaign

10 minutes before sitting down to write this week’s blog, Jeremy from the Fatherhood Institute sent me this link to the latest Dad Labs video on paternity leave.  I just have to pass it on!    I think Dad Labs is one of the best websites in the world on fatherhood – it is . . . → Read More: US fathers call for paternity leave campaign

UK’s equality body says UK’s leave system “works against gender equality”

From the EHRC's report – but what could you actually achieve with a laptop in such circumstances?!

Three cheers for the Equality and Human Rights Commission.  The Report, Working Better, published today, is the best ever contribution to the debate about how parents share work and care and, in particular, the need . . . → Read More: UK’s equality body says UK’s leave system “works against gender equality”

My defence of the Government’s proposed change of law on birth registration

Here is a letter that I wrote today to Beverley Hughes MP, Children’s Minister, and to Kitty Ussher MP, Minister at the Department for Work and Pensions.  It is a response to an attempt in Parliament to undermine the Government’s proposed new legislation on birth registration.

Dear Beverley and Kitty,

I am writing . . . → Read More: My defence of the Government’s proposed change of law on birth registration

Should we support fatherhood in the recession?

Two politicians, Nick Clegg of the Liberal Democrats and Andrew Lansley of the Conservatives have commented that the recession might result in some fathers having more time for their children.  Both have been roundly condemned for their comments. I was struck by an interesting comment piece in The Guardian in response to the . . . → Read More: Should we support fatherhood in the recession?